January 31, June 1, October 1
Something struck me odd when I was looking at various commentaries on this section of the Rule. The comments are more wordy than the passage. Which causes me in turn to comment on the admirable simplicity of the RB. Which I probably in no way emulate, following in the footsteps of the commentators.
Individuality is that God-given unique personality God created person by person. The more we get to know ourselves, the better we are able to know God through Jesus Christ and the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.
Individualism is that ego-centric, self-centered view of the world that says no other consideration but me,myself and I works. It’s a selfish, relativistic and situational world view, is it not? It is also an insidious one because we all fall prey to it at some point, whenever we assert our own stuff above the common good.
I can’t stand to be a member of a committee, for instance, because I have zero toleration for those who assert their own personal ideas above the needs the committee is there to solve. I cannot tell you the rancor that went on over new sofas for the “living room” of my church.
Benedict provides the balance between individuality and individualism. The nun or monk is in obedience to the monastic superior. Ok, most of us who read this are more than likely not in monastic communities so to whom are we in obedience?
In my case, I have made novice promises to my Bishop, Rector, and spiritual director. I can’t say that any of them supervise me too closely. The Bishop delegates to the Rector and in fact, I chat more with the Assistant Rector simply because she has just that tad more free time. I see my spiritual director once a month. You may think this odd, but I count my therapist and psychiatrist as authorities also because of their continued role in my path to mental health.
Do you, Gentle Reader, have someone to whom you look for guidance? Have you a soul friend? (see Kenneth Leech’s book, _Soul Friend_), a priest? spiritual director? Who is the person that provides reality checks in you life?
See… I just knew I’d be more wordy than Father Benedict.